Welcome! I’m Isabella Valentine, and it’s a pleasure to introduce you to erotic hypnosis!
If you’re brand spanking new, WELCOME! You’ve come to the right place!
Before describing the nuts and bolts of erotic hypnosis, here’s a brief background history of my experience in relation to hypnosis. I come with 12 clinical certifications in various types of hypnosis, neuro-linguistic programming, and Time Line Therapy techniques. I’m learning Reiki, Tao energies, and balancing Kundalini Chakra energies. I’m a student at Ivy Tech Community College (this site is not affiliated with them in any way). My legal name is Isabella Suzanne Valentine, and I’m 30 years old – happily married in a poly relationship, and we have a son together. The late Dr. Alfred Kinsey is one of my all-time heroes! Every week, I look forward to visiting his grave so I can replenish his plot with fresh flowers, a tombstone cleaning, and a little chat.
Understanding sexuality is my calling, and I believe in its relaxing power. I live to share erotic, hypnotic energy with those who brave the journey to surrender. I’m presently writing an in-depth large-scale reference book about erotic hypnosis which will take some years to compile research and complete. My goal involves collaborating with knowledgable peers for the clearest grand perspective upon which trance is or can become erotic.
I know erotic hypnosis lucidly more than general hypnosis. I’m less trained in weight loss hypnosis (I’m a few chins away from finishing the whole plate) but I do know sex hypnosis! Perhaps I’ve hypnotized a small amount of people in person. A far greater number of my intimate friends are long distance. I’ve hypnotized maybe 3000 people over the telephone. I’ve sold well over 100,000 recordings since 2003. I’m just a girl who likes to hypnotize learning how to be a blessing
That being said, let’s strip down erotic hypnosis to its bare bones!
In any given second of any single moment in time, there is the Now… ”Now” you are breathing and reading these lines of text. Feel the way you are breathing. Become aware of the sound of your computer and other little sounds around you. Now that you are in a mindful state of awareness, you are open to be Awed by the Magic of trance. Seeing ourselves as sexy loving sentient Be-ings who all wish to experience Wonder, especially being sure to include the richness that sexuality has to offer. We can go inward, deep within ourselves, to give erotic communion to ourselves and/or the intimate people who inspire us through means of orgasm and/or another equally or stronger form of release.
Have you ever taken a moment to stare at the way moisture crystallizes into frost on a blade of grass in the early hours of the morning feeling totally and completely relaxed or…
Have you ever been touched by the hand of a loving partner and anticipated the gentle movement over your body…
These are all examples of loving trance and embrace. All around us. Every day. It is always there. We can feel it stronger when we devote time to being present to the “now” moment.
The second thing to remember is we are consenting adults.
You are ALWAYS IN FULL CONTROL especially regarding self-imposed hypnotic decisions, especially when experiencing erotic trance. The slow, rhythmic bliss of erotic hypnosis is designed to delight the body – and it’s SUPPOSED TO BE PERSONAL. It is always voluntary. You have no obligation to obey. You can choose to disregard anything being said.
You may discontinue at any time. No one may force you do anything against your will. You are free to erase all hypnosis suggestions even without listening to a free hypnosis-suggestion-removal session. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis which means people can accept or not accept any suggestion. You’re YOU for goodness sakes!
There is no shame in feeling erotic within love and light. We’re CONSENTING ADULTS. It’s OK. Nothing to be embarrassed about. A large number of trancers agree that open, clear, honest discussions with our real-life partners is recommended when engaging in erotic hypnosis with an unfamiliar individual.
(I live this lifestyle every day with my husband. I love hypnotizing my friends to have orgasms, what can I say… it’s a beautiful intimate thing. I have a very real love affair with erotic hypnosis and other forms of loving trance… deep meditation, and spiri-touch-ual sex.)
Erotic hypnotists generally offer a variety of fetishes including some that push boundaries on just how sexy something can be. I personally feel that trancers know when something is good or even terrible for them. Erotic hypnosis primarily lives on the outskirts of the porn industry but right along the border of self-empowerment. This fetish resides within a self-regulating industry where each person follows independent ethics. Some people, myself included, voluntary recall our products to discontinue them if we feel they are not relevant to our current paths.
For a more reliable feel for a hypnotist’s “direction,” it is recommended you experience the NEWEST trances. Please resist the urge to judge an artist by their oldest work. Forgiveness and tolerance are encouraged when bonding, especially with novice hypnotists. Every new trance is an opportunity to practice being receptive to a highly erotic experience. The words may not always be right. It may not always be a perfect experience. But with time, practice becomes perfect. Ben Franklin claimed to have failed 10,000 times until he discovered the trick to finding and sustaining electricity!
As a trancer, please only do what you want. If you are given a post-hypnotic suggestion that raises a red flag or if you fundamentally disagree, rest assure you will still disagree when the session ceases. If you subconsciously agree with a command because you AGREE with it – AND you feel it safe, sane, then consider yourself hypnotized! Generally speaking, all erotic hypnosis media, including in person sessions, are all at-your-own-risk. Kind of like swimming. With a gentle and loving erotic hypnotist, you can feel at ease with someone who swims along with you, making the experience even more intimate. The less is known about a hypnotist, the more mysterious the trance. Some people find the “mysterious aspect” to be erotic due to the escalating adrenaline that builds on the “surprise” factor. The more trust and time between hypnotist-subject, the more transparent trance becomes. Trances of this nature create spaces where vulnerability is designed to experience profound pleasure.
Presenting ourselves honestly builds a more elastic and fluid friendship.
Trancers make their own choices, including the decision to try different sessions from the same hypnotist to make a well-informed decision. Don’t hate the apple just cause one was bad. There are many other trees all over the world. Rest assured there will be sweet fruit.
Trancers are lovers of new thoughts, especially ones with an element of make-believe: being naked on a moonlight beach. We are beings of will, imagination, creativity, and strength. It’s a beautiful day when we realize the magnitude of the sexual power we hold inside us, and also see in each other.
Erotic hypnotists spread sexiness through orgasmic relief (or other empowering motivation) around the world. Femdom hypnotists (female dominant hypnotists) just so happen to enjoy leading in the bedroom. Powerful women who master sexual prowess AND are aware of their inductive auras, arouse submissives and switches all over the world to relax and surrender to Mistress’s intentions. Sexual trance is infinite flowing consciousness. Trance is awareness. Some trances feel floaty and flow fluidly and free falling feathers…. Other trances are more direct, assertive, commanding. Some are simple. Relax. Breathe. Repeat.
I’m a friend first, an entertainer second. If my entertainment causes arousal, I consider us lucky friends
Hypnotists may not know of any pre-existing boundaries between you and any intimate partner(s) you have. It is an excellent idea to listen to an erotic hypnosis recording before allowing yourself to be fully hypnotized by it so you can see “how sexy is sexy.”
Your hypnotist should be clear about his or her intentions. My intention is to be your intimate friend who happens to be a lover of body+spirit which we share together. Or I can be simply your fantasy Mistress. I consider my closest friends to be those who also love my erotic trances. My mind blew open a long, long time ago. I have no aversion to loving and being loved by as many people as possible.
I love us. We are connected. I love me and you and us and them and ours. I love your wife’s pretty titties when she bends down to drink from a glass. Your girlfriend’s fucking hot tight ass. Your gentle boyfriend who wears pink scarves to bed. And the college cheerleader down the street! And every so often, your midnight booty call coming over cause he wants you on your knees. It’s all so sexy…. all completely consensual and only between adults. There are many fantasies to enjoy.
I love thinking of how a crowded room might smile when warm hypnotic words are whispered, slow and so tired slipping into relaxation already… without even trying becoming so very sleepy… oh yes, this is a loving way. Surely one could think this could be some kind of spiri-touching or some orgasmic baptism in slow-motion-swaying boobies…. falling into them… or falling…. some…wh..ere… from left to right…
Oh yes. When the moment comes when you are READY for hypnotic trance, release any expectations. That’s a big one. Release the need to have a plan.
Getting your hypno cherry popped is a major turning point in life! Ask any trancer and most of them will tell you precisely when and with whom they had their very first experience. For most people this becomes a passion, just like running. While it can very well be addictive, I personally find it to be just as invigorating as exercising. Trance responsibly. Too much of something isn’t always a good thing. Erotic hypnosis is a soft and hypnotic path to excellence and release of sexual build up, every thought, and every feeling… carrying you away into warm whispers. Your dreams may very well come true!
Erotic hypnosis is rich in sexuality! In it’s purest in form, it can bring together wholeness with body+mind+spirit+sex through orgasm or other form of release.
Rest assured, most ethical erotic hypnotists have a good heart and a naughty libido. If there are doubts, consider getting to know your potential hypnotist personally. Feel free to add your erotic hypnotist to your Facebook friends list or follow them on Twitter to bond over common interests. Your first time with erotic hypnosis SHOULD feel sexy. It SHOULD be personal. It SHOULD leave you feeling good afterwards.
Trancers, let your hair down. Take off your shoes. Stay a while. Time is no boundary. There is only now. Be yourself. Come in with an open mind. Be forgiving. Be open to bond.
Listen to your own voice emerge as you surrender to relaxation… slip into trance, fall into love, into yourself, into the warmth of a bed where you get lost in the sweet essence of voices to relax your body, calm your spirit, and arouse your sex.
Breathe and relax. Fall in love and light together as intimate friends who might also enjoy a game of chess or share moments of profound human discoveries. Let’s share video blogs and life’s abundant awesomeness on Facebook.
If you’re wondering where to start, consider starting with my recording titled “Jackpot” and cum without even using your hands! That’s right! No hands!